I've started avoiding reading certain titles because of this very issue. When I first started on Medium in 2019, it took me a while to find articles that weren't about writing. I found them, but it seems we've come full circle, at least from my perspective.
Dawn, it sounds like you're between a rock and a medium hard place (heh). So far I've not given in to the temptation to write about Medium. I know it's tough and you need to do what you need to do, but I'd hate to see you leave the platform. Good luck moving forward!